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1. Megan wants her wayJoe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 7:19 AM
To: Megan Good morning! Been trying to get a hold of u all week. ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 7:20 AM To: Joe (Dad) Oh ya im not coming this weekend becasue my moms not working and my friend cara is coming down from fresno so ya is that ok? i also told you on facebook ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 7:20 AM To: Joe (Dad) (" **Sn00k@&&D33nA**")@ ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 7:20 AM To: Megan Um..good morning. I love you. ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 7:21 AM To: Joe (Dad) I love you too (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 7:22 AM To: Megan When did u get ur phone back? ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 7:22 AM To: Joe (Dad) This morning (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 7:24 AM To: Megan Why was it taken away? ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 7:26 AM To: Joe (Dad) Because (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 7:27 AM To: Megan Well we have been trying to get a hold all week and we have family plans. We will pick tomorrow. Morning. ________________________________________ MEGAN CALLED ME FROM SCHOOL AT THIS TIME AND WAS RUDE AND DISRESPECTFUL AND EVENTUALLY HUNG UP ON ME. Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 9:50 AM To: Megan The way you talk to me is very disrespectful, hanging up on your dad is just wrong megan. not sure what is going on with you, but this is not the way we raised u. I love u and will pick u up on Saturday. ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 10:23 AM To: Megan When we talk again, I suggest you try a different approach in asking for something. I can not agree to you "telling" me what u r doing nor can I allow u to be disrespectful and then just give in to your demands. Good parenting means showing ur child difference between right and wrong, not enabling them. I refuse to be a bad parent. ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 10:42 AM To: Joe (Dad) Im not going this weekend dad! (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 10:50 AM To: Megan I already confirmed it with ur mom. Sorry u r not the parent and u r not in charge. I love u very much. ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 11:42 AM To: Joe (Dad) No matter what im not going honestly im not going i refuse i dont want to see you i AM afraid of you and i dont want to see you anymore! (" **Sn00k@&&D ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 11:42 AM To: Joe (Dad) 33nA**") ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 11:42 AM To: Joe (Dad) Im not going (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 11:50 AM To: Joe (Dad) Dad! Im not going i may be being disresprectful but honestly i dont want to see you anymore! (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 11:54 AM To: Megan Ok...so what is it that I did to deserve that...? ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 11:55 AM To: Joe (Dad) To deserve what (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 11:56 AM To: Megan You not wanting to see me or being afraid of me? ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 11:59 AM To: Joe (Dad) You are contolling and manipulative and you just scare me! I dont wanna see you (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 12:04 PM To: Joe (Dad) Dad im not going (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 12:08 PM To: Megan Saying no to your 12 year old daughter is not being controlling or manipulating...and u r the only one who believes that. ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 12:26 PM To: Megan I do not believe that u r afraid of me, no one else does either. This is just how u think u can get to have your way. But this will not work with me. I am a great father, michael and your mom have always said the same. I love u. I will pick u up on Saturday. I made arrangements with your mom. ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 12:37 PM To: Joe (Dad) No im not going with you! Im not i dont want to & i dont see why your making me Its my choice to im my own person if i dont want to go i dont have to!! ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 12:37 PM To: Joe (Dad) And im not lying when i say i am afraid of you i really am i dont want to you see you anymore ever! Just let me be:.( (" **Sn00k@&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 12:47 PM To: Megan Now u r just being mean...take a few minutes to think things thru... ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 12:47 PM To: Megan I love you. ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 12:48 PM To: Joe (Dad) I dont need to think it through i already know what im doing (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 1:27 PM To: Joe (Dad) [Quoted text hidden] ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 3:05 PM To: Joe (Dad) im sorry for all the drama but my friend Cara is coming up from fresno and i havent seen her in a really long time Almost a year so please can i see her ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 3:05 PM To: Joe (Dad) this weekend and next weekend i will hang out with you all weekend i promise (" **Sn00k@&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 3:17 PM To: Joe (Dad) [Quoted text hidden] ________________________________________ Megan Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 3:17 PM To: Joe (Dad) [Quoted text hidden] ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 6:30 PM To: Megan It was more than just drama Megan. It was ridiculous. That type of behavior does not work with me. The way you just asked is better. But your behavior was unacceptable I am not going to reward that type of behavior. We r at a wedding, I will see you tomorrow. ________________________________________ Megan Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 10:00 AM To: Joe (Dad) Dad im really sorry but i already made plans and i cant just skip out on it then cara cant come down and all my friends would be dissapointed i really w ________________________________________ Megan Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 10:00 AM To: Joe (Dad) ish you would respect my plans and understand that i will see you next weekend i PROMISE so plleease let me go & dont try to take me while im at gym:( ( ________________________________________ Megan Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 10:00 AM To: Joe (Dad) " **Sn00k@&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 10:10 AM To: Megan Your behavior and the things u have said are inappropriate. I will not enable or encourage this type of behavior. I love you so I am going to do what's right as a parent. I understand u r disapoointed but u r accountable for ur actions. We r on our way, see you at gym. I love you... ________________________________________ Megan Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 10:12 AM To: Joe (Dad) Dad please i already made plans though you dont understand please please Emma is gonna be at the gym and everything. Im reaally sorry pllleeeeease dad ( |
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2. Christy Texts attempts to keep MeganJoe <Joe> Thu, Mar 10, 2011 at 7:58 PM
To: From: Christy Megan had a GREAT time this weekend, it was good to have our Megan back. But it is weird that we haven't heard from her since Sunday. Been trying to get a hold of her. Did u or kaylee take her phone away again? What happened? U know this is the only way I can communicate with her. Did she go to therapy this week? Would like to pick her up this weekend to continue to rebuild our relationship. ________________________________________ From: Christy Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 12:16 AM To: Joe Mike took her phone on tue cuz but she got it back wed. I asked her to call u to say hi and updAte u on her week. She has had her phone all week neverth ________________________________________ From: Christy Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 12:16 AM To: Joe eless. Her counseling is every other week so next wed is her appt. I think a friend of hers who moved away is visiting this weekend but call her to comf ________________________________________ From: Christy Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 12:16 AM To: Joe erm. Thanks ________________________________________ Joe <Joe> Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 7:57 AM To: From: Christy megan say she just got her phone back this morning...apparently she is lying...and she has been ignoring me and tammy all week..I don't believe I should reward this behavior by letting her hang out with her friends, do you?..I am trying to teach her about accountability, boundaries and remind her that she is not the parent. It is crucial at this age. I will be picking her up on Saturday. Thanks ________________________________________ From: Christy Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 9:20 AM To: Joe Mike just told me he had took her phone away longer than i thought. Dont know what meg is telling u but she normally never lies to me about anything. Sh ________________________________________ From: Christy Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 9:20 AM To: Joe e is a wonderful duaghter and i am proud of her. I have this weekend off and i am hoping u take her on the weekends i work. Let me know either way but w ________________________________________ From: Christy Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 9:20 AM To: Joe e need to agree on the weekends u will be taking her. ________________________________________ Joe <Joe> Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 9:45 AM To: From: Christy I think it is unreasonable to only be allowed to see Megan 4 days out of the month. So I will be picking her up on Saturday. ________________________________________ From: Christy Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 10:08 AM To: Joe K just let her know. Thanks |
3. Mike Attempts to rescue Megan
From: Joe
Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 11:40 AM To: From: Christy Am I going to be allowed to take Megan or not? Mike is over here accusing me of not caring about Megan, not returning his calls and of drama all in front of other parents..he needs to not harrass us at gym. _________________________ From: Christy Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 1:13 PM To: Joe Joe u are accusing a very good man of wrongful things. He is a very good father to ur daughter and u should respect that. He is very concened as am i ab _________________________ From: Christy Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 1:13 PM To: Joe out ur spiteful actions. Please work this out with megan and mike. _________________________ From: Joe Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 1:24 PM To: From: Christy I am just telling u what happened...in front of other parents who can corroborate. I am sorry just stating facts. Not trying to be offensive. Want u to know. Next time I will just document it and not fil u in if its going to trigger you. _________________________ From: Christy Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 1:40 PM To: Joe It is almost impossible to rationalize with you. I am sorry he embarrased you. Thanks for letting me know. _________________________ From: Joe Sat, Mar 12, 2011 at 1:55 PM To: From: Christy Its ok..not embarrased. Thanks but what am I not being rational about...we're curious. |